Masturbation effects and control with secrets unveiled

If you want to know about masturbation effects and control especially it's effects  on testosterone cured, you need to know the entire art of masturbation. 

MASTURBATION: A GLOBAL PSYCHOLOGICAL EPIDEMIC

Masturbation is the rhythmic manipulation of the genitals accompanied by mounting excitement and what appear to be an orgasm and a resulting discharge of semen (as in Men) or vagina fluid (in the female).

Masturbation is the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. Wikipedia

In a Journal of International Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, James D. Shelton Cited Peter Piot; “There is not one single solution to stop this epidemic. If [there] were, we would have ... found it a long time ago”.—Peter Piot, former executive director of UNAIDS.

“It saved me.” This emphatic, unrestrained declaration was the response of our young black South African driver to my query about masturbation, as we passed the time discussing HIV enroute to Soweto on an AIDS-related fieldtrip. Although he had a steady girlfriend, he earnestly believed that the sexual outlet provided through masturbation enabled him to avoid seeking multiple partners, which would have exposed him to HIV infection.

                                                                                             

Over the years I’ve got lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys masturbate as well. There is no debate on that. This is not an argument poll on the sex that masturbates most; I am here to address a concrete matter.

Masturbation is the rubbing of the sexual organs continuously to attain orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while Men fondles, massage or caress their penis. This explicit definition was given on account of the question I was once asked “What is Masturbation”. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself). Can you still remember a case of a lady who got a thick cassava stuck into her vagina after her several attempt at masturbation, it was very terrible that she had to be taken for surgical operation.

What then is your response to your arousal? Go for sex? I know you can guess my answer but wrongly, some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They go for an alternative, they masturbate! They give themselves relief and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at the same time.

Even though the issue of masturbation has been a common case, the public health community has been so reluctant in discussing this issue (based on reasons best known to them) but I deemed fit to unveil some thought in the mind of some people about the probable benefits of masturbation like the South African driver which has got so many deep into this societal health and psychological predicament, my standpoint on this issue from general and personal vista having considered some health and ethical factors with the possible remedy.

Reasons why People Masturbates

1. Declination of Coital frequency in women at pregnancy

Coital frequency often declines during pregnancy and the postpartum period, hence male partners may have a tendency to seek other partners for sexual satisfaction this exposes pregnant women to the risk of infection. So, in other to avoid this, some so-to-speak good men turn to masturbation as a salvaging alternative.

2. Choices

People feel it is better to masturbate that to practice unsaved sex even some partner does this with each other’s consent; they prefer to see their partner do that than to see their partner cheat on them. What nonsense!

3. Self-Written Science

Some sets of person sees masturbation as an HIV prevention but for God’s sake! UNAIDS’ extensive Practical Guidelines for Intensifying HIV Prevention does not even mention masturbation (though it is alluded to in passing, lumped with abstinence into the phrase “abstinence from penetrative sex”).

4. Untamed Sexual Urge

 Some people have become so addicted to sex that they cannot go 3 days without it. Also, Sexual urge for virgins is strong or intense-which way you like to put it. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hearsays about sex. So, some prefer masturbating instead of the real sex at the same time claiming virginity.

5. Sexual growth and development in to puberty

From teenage, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's not an indication of any health malady; it is a sign of wellness and a proof of growth and development. Just at the end of teenage to the early 20s, sexual urge would be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world.

6. What the eyes feeds on and the picture stored in the mind

You can go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are biological norms.

7. Phone and Cyber sex

In this age of internet and smart phones, the shared intimacy of phone and cyber sex between separated partners might not only forestall the impulse to have secondary partners, but even help maintain a primary relationship. Nevertheless it is serious threat as partners simulate sex till orgasm while on chat with one another

      8. (Sharafi,M.R.(2000),World of the teenagers, Culture institution of  education,Tehran) categorizes  19 factors as the causes of masturbating which are as follows:

1. Curiosity

2. Unfamiliarity with sexual issues

3. Seclusion

4. Family problems

5. Suspicious and unfriendly friendship

6. Lasting diseases

7. Sense of inferiority

8. Imitation

9. Premature puberty

10. Cultural factors

11. Skin sensitivities

12. Stress and anxiety

13. Babyhood problem such as feeding, type of games and soon.

14. Unsuitable clothes

15. Corporal punishment

16. Parasite infections

17. Voyearing

18. Unsuitable classroom benches and 19.Lack of affection

     

Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

A common myth asserts that losing semen saps men of energy and vital fluids. Also, the widespread taboo against even talking about masturbation reinforces the idea that there is something wrong with it.

As public health professionals, we need to transcend this social taboo and position masturbation as a Unsafe-sex alternative that does not complements other preventive approaches—such as partner limitation condoms, male circumcision, abstinence, avoiding commercial and cross-generational Sex, and promoting more fulfilling primary relationships.

Harmful Effect of Masturbation in men

Educate yourself  says

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it drains protein and calcium content in the body
2. It creates nervousness and neurological problems
3. Masturbation is one of the main causes for erectile dysfunction.
4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time, controlling it is a very big menace
5. It creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the times after ejaculating your sperm, you will experience a damn tired.
6.  It cause stress and strain in your mind and soul
7. Masturbation also affects  us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one feeling on his own
8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in that environment and it is an indecent activity.
9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or at last to think of a sexual prestige/sex organ of the opposite sex.  This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be easily erased. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/lady/woman without a simple thought i.e. sex.
10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely: it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you digging worse sexual problems if chances knock the door.
11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source of sexual pleasure.
12. Masturbation is the main reason for a speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and your wife.
13. Over Masturbation reduces your Sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.
14. SThg seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formation. Proteins are the building blocks of our body: ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distract your metabolism of muscle building.
15. Ethically, Masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect for others. You maybe are good in all other regards but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.
17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.
18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought-provoking abilities.
19. Masturbation is not the end of you desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or satisfaction but seems that is gives.
20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail

Some Other Conventional Effects Of Masturbation

           

1. Masturbation at the initial stage- is not spontaneous; it requires thought and imagination for masturbation to be triggered. It is done with the reprocessing of a prior image of the opposite in mind or the imagination of a past sexual experience in reality or in movies. The image in the mind of the person could be that of a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating.  Also along the line after several cases of masturbation, it can become a norm, which is when spontaneity could be appreciable in masturbation. You just masturbate easily like you’re urinating. That is VIRTUAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may inadvertently lose your virginity to an ordinary non-living material. That’s utterly absurd. Infection and damage to your vagina is another danger, your womb too can be endangered in that course. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. With consistence indulgence in masturbation , there is a probability of a person to become accustomed to the pleasure derived from this act with rid the body system from getting interest in the real sex with his/her partner. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penises are too small didn't marry as virgins. They might have been as singles; their situation might has surfaced on account of the addiction to sex tools.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why absolute virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation, a situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasure that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities     otherwise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and want the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, it affect you health leading to hair loss and depression.

11. You are at risk of hell fire! (That’s correct from the Christian faith vista)

These And More Are The Consequences Of Masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! 

Prevention for Masturbation

Science direct revealed 

1. Sex education
2. Physical exercises
3. Healthy and balanced diet
4. Quality sleep and sleep Adjustment
5. Inculcating and development of spirituality
6. Programming leisure time and also cold bathing

What Then Should You Do With Your

 Sexual Urge? How Do You Handle The Constant Hunger For Sex?

1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.

3. Find something doing, an idle hand is the devil’s workshop. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex – Many more!

5. Study the word of God a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart. Pray and speak in tongues always. It sanctifies you.

7. Make friends with godly people and get busy in kingdom service.

10. Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again. He will surely help you 
With that you need no further advice on masturbation effect on testosterone. The information is enough out. Just stop it. 

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive, unhealthy and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. Jesus can help you.

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